The road to recovery
Last night was a hoot! Once I’d finished all my domestic chores I showered and slipped into something more comfortable, like a t-shirt and joggers and as the sun started to set, jumped into my car and set off. My first point of call was Black Hill lane in Leeds. An old haunt that I’d never been to after dark. My cruising there had always been during daylight hours. I parked up and waited and soon after a guy in a white Seat Ibiza pulled up a little distance behind me. I watched in my rear view mirror and sure enough he flashed his indicators.
I got out of my car and stood by the roadside, and after a minute or two he got out of his car and walked down towards where I stood. He was dressed similarly to me, only he was wearing a hoodie which was up!
As he approached in the darkness I took out my dick and started to stroke it, and he stood and watched me for a minute or so. I walked a little ways into the wooded area alongside the lane and he followed.As soon as I found a clear spot I pulled my joggers down to my knees and as he joined me immediately took hold of it and started working it in his hands.
Neither of us spoke. As I’d not had sexual contact with anyone for months it didn’t take long before I shot my load over the leaf covered ground. He grinned at me and left me to pull up my joggers.
I got back in my car and headed off to find something to eat. My sexual fast broken, the hunt was on for my next adventure…
I stopped off at a Chinese takeaway place not far from home and bought something to eat,then headed back home. Once home I unpacked the food and sat in front of my computer and loaded up Gaydar. I watched the chat rooms for a while not participating just reading and seeing who was on. Then I spotted an old fuck buddy was online and sent him a message. Soon he replied and asked me what I was doing later. I of course told himI was free so he invited me over! Result!
A little over an hour later after I’d showered and changed again, I headed off to my friends. As soon as I arrived he stripped me naked and I stripped him, we started to kiss, and I was immediately hard and ready…after the usual foreplay I fucked him in his lounge as we’d not even made it to the bedroom. He was just as horny as me.
After we’d both exploded over each other and we’d cleaned up he offered to make me a coffee, this is something he’s never done before and I accepted and I’m really glad I did. We sat and chatted about life,love,sex, work,relationships and being single. I really enjoyed his company and after the coffee was over, grabbed him and started to kiss him again and within minutes I was fucking him a second time.
This time it took longer and was a little less urgent,it felt more like love making than animalistic sex, but hey even I need a little tenderness now and again!
After we’d finished I cleaned up and got dressed, by this time it was half past midnight and I was ready for my bed. WE kissed long and hard at the doorway and he made me promise to come and see him again soon. I will! So… does this count as 2 or 3 fucks in one day?
Phoenix Rising
It’s been quite a few months since my last post and I’m sure many of you had thought I’d passed on, but I haven’t. I’ve been busy working a lot and have had particularly tight deadlines to meet as far as publishing dates are concerned so I’ve had to get my head down and get my thoughts galvanised into some senblance of cohesion!
So, here I am again. Phoenix rising as it were. My deadlines gone, manuscripts submitted and my groin feeling like it really needs some attention. I’ve pushed all thoughts of sex to one side for so long that I swear my body thinks my dick has dropped off.
I now have a free calendar. I’m free to cruise, choose and shmooze! I’m blowing the dust off Gaydar and loading up my Grindr. I’m out there and on the hunt for some serious ass.
Watch out world, here I come!
Basement Blues
It’s Monday again and as the post title suggests I’m back at the Basemrnt Sauna in Leeds. I toyed with the idea of visiting the Steam Complex in Armley, but a toss of a 2p coin determined the Basement instead. Normally the staff at these venues are “bear” types, or twinks, but not today! We have a lovely guy on today, mid thirties and bloody attractive, quite chatty too, it makes a nice change.
I’ve spent most of my morning sat in the jaccuzzi and consequently my finger tips and toes are all wrinkled like prunes!
I’m taking a little break, I’ve just had a chocolate bar and a can of coke. I didn’t fancy a coffee. I could murder a cigarette but this is a non smoking establishment and they don’t even have an outside smoking spot like the Steam Complex does. I’m not complaining, I can manage without for an hour or two!
Date Update
It never happened. As is the case with some guys, they just vanish into the ether…he stopped responding to my calls, of which I only made 3.
After that, I chalked him up to another time waster. Ya win some..etc
Another Hot Date
This is Billy (identity protected), we got chatting through Grindr and then onto Gaydar where we exchanged some more pics. Billy is a dancer and is Latino. We’re meeting on Thursday night. I’ll keep you posted!
I need a haircut and a body shave, I haven’t had either since before my trip abroad.
Monday Revisited
Nothing much more happened at the sauna yesterday. I had a few more fumbles with a couple of guys but nothing much to report.
I left around 4pm with the beginnings of a headache, brought on, I suspect, due to a lack of food. I’d been in there since 9.15am and hadn’t eaten all day.
Next time, I must remember to take a food break!
Another success
Just thought I’d post a quick update on the date I’d made for today. I’ve just got back and it couldn’t have gone better. I arrived a little early to be warmly greeted. He was only wearing a pair of blue track bottoms, which were slung quite low. His body certainly matched up to his photos.
After a little small talk, we started kissing and undressing and made our way into his bedroom, where the rest of the clothes were thrown onto the floor. He really enjoyed kissing, which is a huge turn on for me, so I quickly went hard and any nerves I had about not performing were soon forgotten.
We explored each other for a while and I really enjoyed the freedom of touch that total nakedness allows. Soon the kissing became more urgent and we began to move together pressing our bodies and mouths harder.
My hands held onto his buttock as he climbed on top of me and ground his pelvis into mine. I could feel his hardness pressing into me, so I flipped him over and took him fully into my mouth deep throating him until I heard him gasp and moan. He then reached down and pulled me up to face him, kissed me, then turned me onto my back and mirrored what I had done to him. I reached out and found his hard dick which I worked while his mouth worked miracles on me.
After a while I pulled him back up and kissed his lips and neck, then turned him over onto his stomach. My lips played over his shoulders, spine and I worked my way down to his buttocks where my tongue went to work.
For the next hour we gently worked each others bodies until we were hot and sweaty and ready to come. He sat on my abdomen and allowed himself to explode over my chest and stomach, he reached down to me and worked my dick until my hot fluid mingled with his own on my chest.
We lay naked together catching our breath for a while, then cleaned up. I dressed and left, we both gave the promise that we’d meet again, but I realise that these are often empty words. I liked him and would definitely revisit.
Grindr; more chances to get laid!
There’s a new cruising toy for gay men out there, it’s an iPhone application that uses your GPS to locate other gay men near to you, you have the ability to send short IM messages to anyone listed and you can upload a photo, a short bio and it also has the facility to transmit private pics to who ever you’ve started a chat with.
The drawbacks to using the app is that as it uses your GPS it also uses up your battery power pretty quickly. The app tells you how far away someone is on a small profile page where you can view any uploaded photo.
Their website boasts;
“The go-to place for gay, bi, and curious men to meet, the location-based Grindr is FREE, FAST, and FUN. It uses GPS technology in your iPhone and WiFi in iPod Touch to determine your exact location and instantly connect you with guys in your area. Simply launch Grindr to see local guys (the closest appear first) and view pictures, stats, and map locations at a tap. It’s that easy. And since Grindr doesn’t ask for your email address or require account registration, it’s totally discreet. So come on, see who’s available NOW on Grindr.”
So for all you iPhone toting gay dudes out there who want another pick up tool in your arse-nal, go to iTunes App Store now and download it for free!
Who knows, you may only be a few miles from me! Now that’s a scary thought!
Gaydar Friday…
Spent sometime online this morning on Gaydar, hoping to hook up with someone this afternoon for a little naked excitement. Fridays are always slow days on Gaydar. I logged on about 8.30am when I got up and logged into the chat room, I had a few messages, but nothing of any interest until around 10.30am.
I was messaged by a guy in Leeds. We exchanged photos and as is the custom, said what we’re into. His photos were a little fuzzy, but clear enough to get the idea of what he’s like, body wise that is!
We arranged a time for me to go over to his place for later on this afternoon..I’ll keep you posted as the the outcum!
Horny in Wakefield
I found myself in Wakefield this afternoon and as I haven’t visited Thornes Park for quite some time I decided to stop off on my way home.
Thornes Park used to be a favourite cruising spot for gay men as there are plenty of handy places for intimacy and lots of cruisy paths and trails through dense woodland and massive rhodedendron bushes. Quite pretty in summer too!
I have some very fond memories of evening and night time visits in the summer months. But as I said earlier, haven’t been for quite some time.
Being in the middle of the afternoon I guessed it wouldn’t be busy, but I was more curious than horny!
I parked my car in the lower car park and walked up the steep path to what used to be the cruisiest area.
As I guessed, there was no one about that I could see, so I began to follow the most common pathway, through the woodland and shrubs. It wasn’t long before I spotted the first likely candidate for fellow cruiser. A middle aged bloke with huge pot belly, as you can imagine I kept on going. After a few more minutes walking I spotted my second likely candidate, a guy in his late twenties wearing trackie bottoms, t-sort and baseball cap.
This guy did catch my eye. As I walked past him we made eye contact and I detoured into the shrubs and found a suitable spot to stop. As expected the guy soon joined me. For the next 30 minutes or so we kissed, exchanged blow jobs and jerked each other off.
As soon as we’d both satisfied each other, as is the custom, we parted without saying a word to each other.
So, I’m happy to report that Thornes Park hasn’t lost it’s magic.
I must remember to go back more often especially after dark!
Outdoor Pursuits
Not feeling like going to the sauna this week, I decided to try one of the many cruising spots around Leeds instead. I picked the closest spot to me, the weather was pleasant and so just right for some outdoor fun.
The spot that I’d chosen is quite close to a very large park area called Golden Acre Park.
The spot itself isn’t in the park, so no problems with people out walking their dogs or families with children in tow. I drove past one of the many side entrances to the park until I arrived at the spot, Black Hill Lane.
Turning into the lane, I travelled down to almost its end. Where there are several small laybys for cars to pull into.
On the side where youcan park, there are several trails leading off into an area of woodland, inside the woodland walks and trails snake throughout. The spot must be at least 4 square acres which is criscrossed with walkways and trails. Inside there are plenty of places where you can have some fun.
I parked my car on the side and waited. A few other cars were already parked and it wasn’t long before someone caught my eye, a young guy driving a silver BMW who parked up just in front of me. I watched him get out of his car, he was wearing brown work trousers, tight across his butt and a white shirt. He looked around and then disappeared into the woodland. After a few minutes I got out and followed him in.
I wandered along one of the trails until I caught sight of his shirt up ahead through the leaves of the trees and headed in his direction. He’d stopped walking and had stood just off one of the trails half hidden by some high shrubs. As I approached his position I noticed he had taken his dick out of his trousers and was slowly stroking it. As I entered his vision he didn’t try to hide it. I looked around to ensure we weren’t being followed or observed and joined him off the trail.
As soon as I got close I dropped to my knees and took him in my mouth and worked his hard cock with my lips and tongue until he started to moan and pump his cock in and out of my mouth. I also unfastened my own jeans and released my own hard cock and began to stroke myself whilst giving him head.
He pulled his cock from my mouth and pulled my jeans down to my knees and began to stroke my hard cock, then he bent and took me in his mouth working my hard flesh. He unfastened the buttons on his shirt to reveal his chest and abdomen. I reached down and began to play with his nipples as he worked my dick with his mouth all the while he pumped his own cock through his fist.
I felt my myself getting ready to shoot as his mouth worked harder and harder, as I came to the point of shooting, I let him know and to my suprise he started working my cock harder with his mouth and tightened his grip. After a few minutes I felt myself explode inside his mouth two or three times as waves of pleasure wracked my body. When the pulsing had subsided, he let go of my cock and stood up grinning, he’s swallowed my whole load. He continued to pump himself as I played with his nipples and soon he too shot his hot white load out over the leafy ground at our feet.
We both began to dress again and he winked at me and headed off towards his car. I noticed that even though he was fastening up his shirt his cock was still sticking out of his fly as he walked back in the direction of his car.
I pulled up my jeans and headed back after giving him a few moments head start. When I got back to my car, his had gone.
The Libido Returns
It seems that my recent bout of illness is well and truly over. For the first time in nearly two weeks I actually felt horny and I woke up with an erection on Monday morning.
Not wanting to waste it I slipped a porno DVD into my player in the bedroom and pleasured myself slowly for an hour before getting out of bed. I showered off the mess I’d made all over my chest, then dressed and had some breakfast before deciding that I needed to play catch up with my sex life. My libido was well and truly back and couldn’t be ignored.
I considered my options over breakfast. I could cruise Gaydar or Manhunt for someone to play with but that wouldn’t guarantee anything, guys aren’t really playful first thing on a Monday morning so I ruled out that option. I could drive up to a local cruising spot, but that meant that I’d have to sit in my car for a good hour or two before it got busy enough for someone cute and sexy enough to arrive for me to want to drop my pants in the woods. So I settled on a trip to the sauna, almost guaranteed for success. I considered the Steam Complex in Armley, Leeds, but I’ve never been in on a Monday morning, only in an afternoon and it’s never been busy that I can recall, next I thought about driving to Dewsbury and visiting the Plastic Ivy, but again, it’s hit and miss and it doesn’t open until 12 noon. I needed action ASAP, so The Basement in Leeds was the only option open to me. I know it gets busy mid morning, I’ve never had a wasted trip to the place, so hedging my bets I headed off into Leeds.
I parked my car as usual in the multi story and headed on into the sauna. I arrived just before 11am. When I handed over my entrance fee I was given key No 5, a sign that there were at least 4 other guys already there. I undressed in the locker room and headed for the showers. Once I’d freshened up I headed straight for the dry sauna, which was empty, so I spread out my towel and laid naked on the upper tier and relaxed.
After a few minutes a guy entered and sat along the edge, I glanced to see what he looked like, not too bad smallish with a little dark hairy chest, quite pleasant looking and a decent body, not overly worked but toned. he glanced over at me, well to be precise he looked directly at my cock, but didn’t look away straight away. I guessed I was onto a winner. I stretched and ran my hand down over my chest and stomach resting my hand on my trimmed pubic hair, then just as I caught him looking over again, stroked my now thickening dick. He reached down and untied his towel so I could see what he had to offer. Not bad, not too big, not to small and tidy, all trimmed and clipped, just the way I like it. As I watched him, he stroked himself for a few moments then stood up, retied his towel around his waist and left the sauna. He wanted me to follow, which I dutifully did. I followed him upstairs into the TV room where he’d sat and removed his towel. I sat beside him and removed mine. There was what looked like an eastern european porno playing on the TV, young guys giving each other head. We sat watching the movie for a few minutes stroking our dicks, then as I reached my optimum hardness, I reached over and took his dick in my hand and began to stroke him slowly.
He leaned back and moaned gently as my other hand cupped his balls. Taking this as my cue I knelt in between his thighs and lowered my mouth onto his dick transferring my hand up to his chest and erect nipples. I worked his dick in my mouth running my tongue around the head, making him moan with pleasure, he reached down and gently took the back of my head in his hand and guided me in the rhythm of his choosing. I didn’t resist.
Then a third guy came into the Tv room and sat just behind where I was kneeling, he sat and watched us both for a few minutes, we were too engrossed in what we were doing to notice or care that he was watching. Soon I felt his hand stroking my naked buttocks and his fingers found my butt. I was so turned on by the hairy chested guy I didn’t stop the third guy from exploring my ass. I then felt him moisten my butt hole and then he slid one of his fingers into but wet hole. I hadn’t been fucked for so long my hole just opened up for him. My cock was so hard at this new sensation that I thought it might burst. The third guy continued to play with my butt hole while I serviced the hairy chested guys cock, but I guess he didn’t like the idea of a 3 way as he pulled his dick out of my mouth, stood and left wrapping his towel around his waist as he did so. I guess some guys prefer 121 action. The guy who was playing with my ass stopped and sat back down to watch the TV, so I wrapped my towel around my waist and set off to see if the hairy chested guy had positioned himself in one of the privacy rooms waiting for me.
I checked all the rooms that were unoccupied but he was nowhere to be seen, so I went back downstairs to find him sat in the coffee lounge. I guess he’d had enough. It happens, it’s nothing I’d worry about. Some guys like to take a break even if they haven’t shot their loads.
I ventured back upstairs once again and sat in the TV room which was once again empty. I threw off my towel and began to work my still hard cock while watching the porno. After a few minutes a new guy came into the room, a little older than the first, but still with a decent body. He sat to my right and seeing that I hadn’t covered myself up also took off his towel and began to stroke his cock. His was bigger than the hairy chested guy and slightly thicker, he was also cut, which I like.
We watched each other for a moment or two, then he leaned over taking my hard cock into his mouth and he expertly worked it with his tongue and throat. I felt waves of pleasure flow through my body. As he was doing this another guy walked into the room. Once again I was too turned on to care, but this guy was a tall slim guy with a smooth lithe body and a shaved head in his mid thirties. Not bad at all. The first guy sat back up releasing my cock from his mouth and I leaned over to him and returned the favour, this time I didn’t kneel between his thighs, but remained stood up with my ass exposed to the skinhead, who took the hint and threw off his towel, knelt behind me and began to rim my ass. His hand slid between my legs finding my hard cock and as he worked his tongue in my ass, he also pumped my cock. My head was spinning with ecstasy and my cock was building ready for a big explosion. I continued to work the first guys cock with my mouth and tongue exploring his chest with one hand and holding his balls in the other. Low moans of delight escaped him as I moved my mouth up and down on the shaft of his hard cock. The third guys tongue still working on my wet eager asshole.
Soon, the third guy stood up and began to fumble around behind me, I couldn’t see what he was doing as I was still working the other guys cock in my mouth, but felt a pressure on my asshole, my hand slid round to feel his rubbered cock pressing up against my wet anus, I pushed back eager to have him inside me. He pushed and slowly he slid inside my ass and began to pump while I still held the first guys cock firmly in my mouth. I hadn’t been fucked for almost a year and I was so turned on I eagerly gave in to my desires.
After a few minutes, a fourth guy came into the TV room and watched me being spit roasted, but he didn’t stay. The first guy getting ready to shoot, pulled my mouth away from his cock and leaned in to kiss me, I eagerly accepted his lips. After a minute or two he slid down and took my cock into his mouth and began to suck on my hard flesh whilst the third continued to pump his cock into my ass. I was so turned on that I knew I wouldn’t be able to take much more before blowing my load, but then the third guy pulled his dick from out of my ass and shot his hot sweet load all over my back. The first guy took my cock out of his mouth and unfolded a rubber from out of nowhere over my hard member, he looked up at me and said, “My turn”, he stood and turned round leaning over onto the seating area. He rubbed lube from a sachet onto his butthole and then over and down the length of my hard shaft. I positioned myself behind him and slowly pushed myself into his ass. There was little resistance as my entire length slid neatly into his ass.
I began to pump, slowly, gently and then building up speed and intensity based upon his breathing and his low moans. The third guy positioned himself next to me and began to stroke my ass hole with his fingers as I pumped myself deep into the first guy’s butthole.
Soon, I couldn’t take anymore and I pulled out just in time to rip off the rubber and shoot my load all over the guys back, he, also ready to shoot, jerked his cock until he too shot all over the floor of the TV room.
All three of us sat grinning at each other recovering from our efforts. Soon the third tied his towel back around his waist and left for the showers. The first guy leaned over and gave me one last long kiss on the lips before disappearing towards the showers too. I sat for a few minutes more, my towel still thrown on the floor, but I didn’t care. I sat in contentment watching the shadows on the walls of the TV room dance and pulse from the light of the Tv screen now showing three young guys mirroring the very same action I’d just participated in. I smiled, stood and headed for the showers feeling very pleased with myself.
Gaydar not so far…
Just had a message from a guy who lives local. He’s obviously used the Gaydar GPS facility. Asked me if I fancied a 3sum with a mate of his. he sent me the other guys profile to take a look at his pics. He seemed pretty cute so I agreed.
I walked around to the guys house, which was only two streets away, and a few minutes later the third guy arrived. We sat, chatted, watched a bit of porn and then go to it. Soon there were bits of clothing flying all over the place.
A very horny time indeed. We’ve all agreed to do it again sometime.
It’s nice to have a local regular to have sum fun with!
Cruising Online
Using the internet is a great way to meet guys, using the many gay personals sites that are out there is a cheap and effortless way of filling up your diary.
I’ve been a member of Gaydar since it started many many years ago. I’ve even paid for full membership for most of it.
Over the years my profile name has changed many times to fit my mood, although this time I’ve stuck with the same one for the past 3 years. It seems to work quite well. There are numerous ways of contacting and hooking up with guys, either via chat rooms or by sending messages to which you can attach your “personal” pics. This is my profile below and yes those pics are of me.
I use both methods. Today I’ve been online for a while looking at who’s on. I’ve also made an arrangement to go see a guy tomorrow lunchtime for a session, which if what he says is true, should be very horny. I’ll keep you posted!
The Basement Sauna
Yesterday, as I had a free day I thought I’d head on down to the Basement Sauna Complex in Leeds. It’s situated under a railway arch leading from the main railway station in Leeds so is very easy to find. I arrived about 11am, avoiding the lunchtime rush. I knew I’d get a parking spot and headed straight down from the car park. I knew the place wasn’t busy when the guy on the counter handed me key No 4.
I paid my money and went into the locker room, undressed and then headed to the shower area. After freshening up I went into the dry sauna, my first port of call. I knew the place was pretty empty so wasn’t suprised to see I was on my own. After about 20 mins sat in there the sweat was pouring off me so I headed back to the shower. Cleaned off and walked into the TV area. I noticed a guy sat on one of the free pcs in the TV lounge who looked pretty cute, but you can never really tell in the subdued light.
I headed off upstairs to see who else was in. I knew there had to be at least another two guys. Sure enough I spotted both laying out in privacy cubicles, not much to write about there, so I went and sat in the small room where they play porn on a wall mounted TV.
For once they were showing a pretty decent film, so I stayed awhile to watch when the guy from the pcs downstairs walked in and sat down. I was right he was pretty cute and his body was pretty buff. I didn’t think he’d be interested in me so I got up and wandered down to the other Tv screen at the other end of the floor. I couldn’t remember whether the tvs are linked or whether they played different films. It was the same, so I headed back to the main tv room from where I’d just left, only to find the cute guy had followed me down.
Not being sure whether he was following me or whether it was just a coincidence, I went into one of the glory hole rooms and locked the door. I figured that if he was in to me then he’d go into the adjoining cubicle.
Sure enough he did. I knelt down and watched him drop his towel through the hole in the wall. I was impressed.
Not going into too much detail, I entertained him for a few minutes, then he grabbed his towel and left the cubicle next to mine. I also left and wandered down to the other end of the floor, where I found him sat in one of the private cabins. As I approached he threw off his towel and beckoned me inside.
I had a good time in there with him, we didn’t do much talking, after about an hour we finished and he headed for the shower, I hung on for a few minutes until he’d finished, then showered off myself. By this time I could see he was dressing and preparing to leave.
I was hungry so went to the tv lounge and ordered a cheese sandwich and a coffee. The coffee was OK but the sandwich was tasteless. They were showing the Bette Midler film “Beaches” on the tv, so I watched that for a few minutes while my sandwich digested then headed off to the steam room. I wandered between dry sauna to steam room a couple of times, and I noticed that it had gotten a little busier in the mean time so headed back off up stairs.
There appeared to be at least another 6 or 8 guys in, and one more that caught my eye. I positioned myself in one of the private rooms so that I could see the corridor and watch the porn on the tv as well and waited until he walked past. Sure enough, after 5 or 10 minutes he did and I made eye contact with him. He played it cool and carried on walking, but soon came back after a few minutes.
He smiled at me and I nodded for him to join me in the room. He did.
After about another hour, we finished up and I headed off to the shower to clean off and freshen up. I dressed and handed in my locker key to the guy on the desk on my way out. All in all a successful visit.
I don’t mind this venue, it’s clean and tidy and not too expensive. People have said that it’s small and cramped but I don’t think so, I think it’s quite cosy and intimate, which, when all is said and done, really what we go for!
Cruising for Sex
Sex is easy to get, for gay men at least. There are many areas around the Yorkshire region, if you know where to look, where you can go to meet men for sex. Some guys use these spaces for meeting up, then they go back to one or the others places, or some may make use of the surrounding areas.
In Yorkshire, there are plenty of woodland areas that can be exploited for sexual purposes. I know of 3 such places that I have visited from time to time over the years. I quite like the thrill of staying outdoors, feeling the wind against my naked skin.
It’s not something I do on a regular basis, and only when the weather is good enough to be outdoors with your jeans around your ankles!
On Friday, I found myself in one such place. I parked my car at the side of the road adjacent to the wood and waited. A number of cars passed over a period of time, all driving too slowly to be doing anything else apart from the same as me. Occasionally one would park up. The driver would get out, look around and then disappear off into the woods. The trick is, if you like the look of the man, you can follow him in and if he likes you too, then bingo, job’s a good ‘un.
Just as in life generally, there’ll be plenty of guys you wouldn’t touch with someone elses barge pole. However, occasionally, you strike it lucky.
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